Being able to drive a partner crazy in bed is every man’s dream, Right? So, the next time you get the chance, try these moves on for size.
Give her an amazing kiss.
If it’s done right, a kiss can be the most effective way of getting a girl’s attention. Keep your breath fresh with some gum or mouthwash and keep your lips loose. Tight, puckered lips are how you kiss your grandma! You should also keep the tongue action delicate (at first). The motions should be light, soft and alternate between fast and slow. Know where to put your hands. The back of her neck, the sides of her face or around her waist are all good areas for your hands to rest during a kiss.
Keep some variety.
If you find an area where she likes to be touched, don’t overuse it. Instead, back away from it for awhile and slowly make your way back, touching everything around and up to it. The anticipation will make it more intense when you finally do touch her.
Leave her wanting more.
Leaving before the other person gets bored is a good rule for most social interactions, but it’s particularly important here. If you break off contact while she’s still interested, you’ll be on her mind constantly.
Kiss around her mouth.
Take your finger and run it very lightly around the edge of your lips. Do you feel that? There’s some very sensitive skin around the edge of the mouth. Kiss her just at the corner of the mouth and deny her a proper kiss for a few minutes (no matter how much she tries). You’ll drive her crazy.
Master the stomach, side, and pelvic kiss.
The neck and inner thighs tend to be the obvious spots. So obvious, in fact, that we forget how sensitive other parts of the body are. If you want to get her writhing, trail some kisses along the side of her ribs (that spot that’s so easy to tickle), the curve of her stomach just past where her abs are, and the protruding bit of her hip bone (usually found just above or just below the waistband).
Take your time when you undress her.
Don’t undress her too fast and when you do undress her, make it a part of the experience, rather than just a hurdle. Women spend a lot of time making them-selves look nice. When you just rip everything off without appreciating it, it’s like you got handed a pristinely wrapped present and didn’t even care.
Introduce just a smidgen of kink.
You don’t have to go wild, but a blindfold or tying her hands back with a silk scarf can force her to focus on what she’s feeling. Just make sure she consents!
Learn some anatomy.
If you really want to get serious, one of the better ways to really physically turn her on is to make use of her anatomy. Get a good primer on female anatomy and start some experimenting. The clitoris is your friend. Find it. Master it. But don’t neglect all of the other sensitive areas around it!